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Purity Rings – Just More Christian Brainwashing?
It's a ring, made of a silver, gold or some other metal. It is supposed to signify virginity celibacy until marriage. They have been around since the 1990's, being invented by United States Christian sexual abstinence groups (leave it to us to come up with this crap). What amazes me is that people actually believe all this Christian brainwashing crap. Suckers!
This story isn't about whether religion or Christianity is bullshit or not, although I will say all religion is a Joke and just a waste of everyone's time. It was invented by people to put fear into them, and keep them serving thier wishes. I don't care whether it's Christian, Muslim, Islamic, Jewish, or some other religion…… it's all a big joke at your expense!!! I will save the religious debate for another time however.
Back to this purity ring nonsense…. A 16 year old London girl, Lydia Playfoot has asked the U.K. High Court to enforce her rights to wear a purity ring in school. The incident started when her school in West-Sussex imposed a ban on purity rings. Apparently the school already had a ban on wearing of any jewelery, whether religious or not. This Christian lemming, Lydia Playfoot, wants to make this into a religious discrimination case. Stop wasting everyones previous time and money and get a life already! She's 16, she should be having fun and doing teenager stuff instead of worrying about her chastity! It's not sacred, it's not special…. it's natural. We EVOLVED (oh, no…yes it's true; EVOLUTION really DID happen) with penises and vagina's for a reason. Do you see rabbits or chickens or cats or dogs waiting to have sex till they get married?
The school banned jewelery, religious or not and I hope the U.K. court can see that it's not a discrimination thing at all. She should be liable for the expenses the government has had to endure on her behalf!
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they have been around for alot longer than the 90s fool.
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I see nothing wrong with choosing to remain chaste till you are with a person you plan to spend a significant portion of your time with. So what if we evolved to want to have sex often and without commitment? We also evolved to want to rape people at times, and kill people at times. That something is natural doesn’t make it good, this is a fallacy that bigots often use (for example regarding homosexuality).
I think the policy of NO jewelry is a bit extreme and unnecessary, but if that is the policy she should not get special treatment for this ring. However I’d challenge the rule in total, I don’t think minor items of personal significance should be forbidden so long as they do not become an obstruction to and educational environment.
Choosing to save an experience to share with a person you have a particularly strong bond with brings something extra to the relationship, whatever that experience may be. In the case of sex, it also prevents STDs and unwanted pregnancy. I don’t see how any of these are bad things. The religious folk may have silly reasons for choosing this, but that doesn’t make the idea itself absurd or wrong. In fact I find it a good thing personally, that can bring added enjoyment to their lives. And I find this ridicule of it without even giving it significant consideration a bit immature.
-Kaell, atheist, anti-theist
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this is really funny because if this were america id expect it to explode into a shitstorm, but over here here in the sunny, bland and neutral uk she will be laughed out of court (hopefully)
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Just to let you know that Muslim and islamic is the one same thing.
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It would be interesting to know just how fully the ‘No Jewelery’ rule is enforced in the school. If other pupils are getting away with wearing jewelery then it could be considered a discrimination case.
Still bloody stupid if you ask me.
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you really said what had to be said !! thank you.
Just give her a tip : the ring won’t preserve her virginity !!
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I agree 100%
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nice….i saw that damn ring a few days ago…i think they were talking about that girl u mentioned…i was like wtf? it has nothing to do with ur religious beliefs….its just another fad…as u said..something else the church can use to brainwash and keep bullshitting people…
damn..when i was 16…i was still a virgin…but just because the opportunity just hadnt come yet..haha…as u say…humanity has evolved…the church like it or not…
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The ring was originally a pagan symbol for virility, until stolen by the Christians to symbolize a union between a man and a woman. It’s funny that some Christians decided to change the definition yet again to mean chastity until marriage.
What ever happened to just saying “No”?
I also find it silly that this person believes that she must wear the ring to show the choice she made, but I don’t think it has anything to do with her lack of sexual activity. This just screams “Look at me!”, like we see all over the world as people who are not worthy of attention receive more than their 15 minutes.
Respect for other people’s cultures and religions is certainly important, but I agree with the school’s decision to ditch these rings (as well as a slew of other non-standard religious symbols).
This is all part of the seperation between church and state. If she doesn’t like it, then perhaps she could join a convent or a Christian school. But since this is not a standard symbol for chastity, she’ll likely be asked to take it off anyways.
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Damn right away with these fairy tales for poor minds EVOLUTION FACT !!!, Wearing a stupid ring wont make your hormones dissapear FACT especially when youre a teenager. Lets hope eveangelism really doesnt take hold in Britain.
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HELL YEAH!!! Anyone who needs a piece of metal to remind them of their beliefs must not be that dedicated. It’s not as though you’re going to forget about your purity without the ring. Religious propaganda is such bullshit. Girls should be taught to have sex when they’re comfortable with their bodies and their partner. Not when some legal contract says they should. Sex education is fucked in this country. It’s no wonder teen pregnency rates are higher than ever.
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“Lets hope eveangelism really doesnt take hold in Britain.”
Sorry to let you know, but evangelism and christianity origionated in Europe after Pagan beliefs were altered to suit.
I’m an atheist, but I don’t see why everyone here has to go bashing religion. Christianity is not something I follow, but that doesn’t mean I have to despise everything to do with it. Also, you’re horribly extreme in your other statements. It’s people like you that give Atheists a bad name.
Personaly, I think that it’s no big deal if girls wnt to wear these rings. But I wouldn’t call it religious discrimination. Basically, girls wearing these rings are just saying “Hey, look at me, I’m christian nd proud of it.”
Calm down everyone.
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yeah, how dare the christians promote social responsibility for teenagers.
i don’t think a chastity ring should be an exception to the school’s rule either, but don’t be an idiot.
so you think sex is just a physiological act, a mix of procreation and recreation, nothing more. well that’s fine…for you. some people want more out of life, some people want more out of sex.
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Uhm…, I’m not really understanding how someone could say “do what you want – sex is natural, not sacred or special” Before we meet, my husbands decision to do just that brought a child in this world with parents who never married, and despite that fact both sides love him, he hurts terrible inside to know who to live with, who to trust more, who to really believe, and to know how to define himself since both his mom and dad are very different from each other.
Don’t forget that ANIMALS HAVE SEX TO HAVE BABIES and they take on that responsibility. If you really want to compare us to them, then we humans need to be having sex to have babies. And I don’t think that what you are using it for.
No doubt sex is pleasurable, if it wasn’t, we wouldn’t do it and none of us would be here. Sex is very powerful, so much so it creates life and a deeper love between partners. Why bash someone who finds that special or sacred. If you don’t agree, that’s your choice. But why criticize someone else’s choice. They WANT something different than you want.
Why are you so angry about people who make this choice when you are obviously making your own choice? Do you want us to bash you for your decisions? It doesn’t seem like your carefree sex is making you a happier person, I wonder why.
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“Don’t forget that animals HAVE SEX TO HAVE BABIES and they take on that responsibility”
Yes and some animals eat their young and some baby spiders eat their mothers. Sex is really what you make of it, oif you dont want kids there is contraception. So please dont make it this huge thing. If Diane it is special to you thats very nice for you but dont hoist your conceptions on other people. And i think the main arguement against this type of teaching is that it is trying to indoctrinate kids.
It can be a very special thing or it can just be humping for pleasure it is your CHOICE.
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The overridingly Victorian morals that appear in every debate about sexuality are illfounded, unreasonable and most unhelpful. If one cannot accept that our nature is based on our past and on our evolutionary roots one should steer clear of such debates.
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If you ever want to control someone, tell them that their most basic urges are wrong and that they need you to be cured.
According to Christianity, we are born sick and commanded to be well, the essence of a totalitarian government.
I’m not saying that celibacy is wrong, but that it should be the individuals right to choose.
Besides, what’s the use in parading your chastity in public? If these people really cared about being chaste, they shouldn’t need a ring to confirm that. I think the best way of staying chaste is by simply not having sex. Sounds pretty obvious to me.
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I agree with the person before me. I happen to live in America, in one of the smaller states of the country. I being agnostic, and an anarchist in a supremaly republican and chrstian sosciety makes life quiet hard. I am not a virgen by any mean but my girlfriend is and i have told her from the begging that I will wait till she is ready, and i have.I catch distrust and almost hatred form every where even my own parents.I do not to pretend to know every thing but i do know one thing, as long as there is a certain amount of people that refuse to think for themselves there will always be people who tell them they are wrong or bad, and that their way will sace them which is ofcourse total bullshit! you always have a choice even if you don’t see it.
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First off, if she wants to do it, let her. Secondly, while dogs and cats are like that, they do that because of an instinctual desire to survive. Given that there are 6 billion plus humans on the planet, do you really think there need to be more sex? There’s nothing wrong with waiting after all.
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Stupid Christians…
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The stupidest thing is that she left the school last week. It’s just a desperate attempt to get publicity for “The Silver Ring Thing”, the UK branch of which is run by her father.
Personally I hope she loses the case so her parents have to pay the costs which may serve as a warning against future frivolous lawsuits.
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/martin_samuel/article1985626.ece
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A ring that preserves virginity! Where does she wear it?
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I think that the whole “no jewelry” is what needs to go. The celibacy ring is stupid, but she should be able to wear it if she wants, or wear a freakin nipple ring of purity if she wants. On the other hand, if the school is going to enforce the rule for other students, it should be enforced for her as well, I’m it will make no difference in her sex life or afterlife(none).
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Hello. I was looking for purity rings (by choice) and i came accross your site. First of all, as i said before, this purity ring is a CHOICE i made for myself and didn’t have anyone brainwashing me into getting it. If someone didn;t want one, no one is going to make them not have sex until they are married. It’s their own choice. You are right in saying that no ring is going to make someone not have sex but it signifies a promise from you to God. No one else is involved unless you want them to be and so you have no point in saying it’s brainwashing. Second of all, if all of this religion stuff isn’t true, then we wasted our time and we’re both going to hell. If it is true, you still wasted your time and are still going to hell. Have fun with that.
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we think that this website is crappy trash and who ever wrote this knows nothing!!!!! whoever came up with the idea of purity rings is GENIOUS!!! and CHRIST knows way more!!! i bet whoever wrote this doesn’t even have a religion to believe in…so you guys don’t need to be critisizing other religions!!!
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anon Reply:
January 22nd, 2009 at 7:43 pm
You believe the rational thinker knows nothing, yet your post is riddled with spelling errors?
And atheist should criticize other religions, as religion is a crutch for the human mid to lean on when they fear or have unanswered questions.
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If the school has said no jewelry, then the girl should stick to the rules. But other than that, why do you care? If a person wants to wait till marriage, then more power to them. Everyone should just butt out…
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Why do you speak of Christianity as brainwashing? Because they have morals, values, and faith in their lives? Obviously, you seem to be lacking in that department. As for evolution happening? Read up on the actual facts and probable chances of it occurring just so we’d be where we are today. Now that stuff is a load of crap. I also don’t like how you compare humans to rabbits, chickens, cats, or dogs. If that’s how we all lived everyone would have an STD and be perverted beyond belief, humans are above animals and that is the way it was meant to be. Who cares if a UK girl wants to wear a purity ring? It’s her decision and it takes a lot of strength to make a commitment to wait until you marry the right person to have sex. If that is what she wants to do, then let her! Not everyone is in on having sex with just anyone, like it sounds you are all for. I don’t think it is wrong someone out there actually wants to wait to get married before having sex, because her virginity is a sacred gift. Stop calling Christians lemmings, they’re not rodents, but real people with beliefs and faith!
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Though I agree how bullshit it is for a 16 year old chick complaining about a damn ring to hide the fact that she’s an attention whore, your ignorance when it comes to religious tolerance and the lack of proper fundamental understanding is mind blowing.
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God loves you.
Whether you want his love or not.
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A purity ring isn’t going to make you stay a virgin, I agree. However, it’s one way out of many to let others know that you don’t believe in sex before marriage, and you’ve promised to stay a virgin until you’re married. Of course rabbits, chickens, and cats don’t wait to have sex until they’re married, they don’t get married, fool. Plus, they weren’t commanded BY GOD to stay pure until they got married. It isn’t up to you to say whether or not evolution happened or not, either. If you want to think that we’re ancestors of monkeys, fine, believe it, I’ll call you a monkey. But when you stand before my Holy God on your judgement day, it’ll be a big slap in your face to learn you were extremely wrong all these years. I look up to this girl very much, and you left something out of your little artical here… other kids at this school who had religious jewelry weren’t told they couldn’t wear them. If my school banned purity rings, I would complain, too, and I’d take it to court if that’s what it took. It takes a big person to stand up for what they believe in, even if they know they might lose. I’m 15, and it is NOT natural for kids to be having sex at my age. They’re not emotionally ready for it. Teenagers move from one thing to the next, including the people they like. If a girl has sex with a guy, she usually feels somewhat attatched to him (to say the least), and once he’s moved on from her, it could crush her. If it was natural for kids to be sleeping around, then it’d be natural for 7 year olds to get pregnant and have kids. Why do you call wearing a purity ring “brainwashing?” I came across your website while I was looking for a purity ring. No Christian came up to me and said “You have to get a purity ring and stay a virgin until you’re married. If you don’t you’re going to Hell.” No one said that!! Like I said at the beginning of thi it’s an easy way to show what I believe in! I don’t believe that anyone should have sex before marriage, just like I don’t believe in homosexuality, abortion, or cussing. And that’s not from me being brainwashed, I’ve studied those subjects, I’ve spent days looking for things to back me up on why those things shouldn’t be done. Religion is not a joke, or a waste of time, as you put it. I don’t even look at my Christianity as a religion, I look at it as a life style. I live out my beliefs, I stand for them, even when people are putting them down. I think you’re an idiot for writing this, and I hope you come to realize how so very wrong you are soon, before it’s too late. I know this comment is all over the place, but this artical honestly ticks me off! Who are you to say this girl is wrong?! Who are you to call this girl stupid?! Who are you to say anything about religion, when you don’t even have one?! I have so much more to say, but I should be going now… I’m shopping for a purity ring. Thanks.
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If she wants this ring to work she has to take off her finger and hold it between her knees
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“Second of all, if all of this religion stuff isn’t true, then we wasted our time and we’re both going to hell.” – Emily
Um if you are wrong there would be no hell to go to… That’s logical… Think about it.
I could really care less about the stupid rings and the idiots who wear them – what burns my ass is that so many people are making such a big freakin’ deal out of it.
Yeah I think religion is brainwashing – and that is after being forced to attend a K-12 christian school. Now 10 years after graduation I still wince when I am asked where I went to school. When I was in the school I believed what I was taught. Children are very open to the influences of the adults around them and what they are taught. As an older teenager and now as an adult I know that it is all bullshit.
Who knows if I wasn’t forced to hear about and study it every day, I might even be a church member right now.
Why don’t you all just trade in the rings for some iron underwear? I guarantee that would be more effective. Of course the rings won’t prevent premarital sex, any more than wedding rings prevent affairs.
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The real injustice in this case is that I don’t think the teachers and administrators are banned from wearing jewelry. If they were forced to take off their wedding rings before comming to work this whole thing would just go away. As far as the brainwashing goes, now who is telling everyone what to believe, or not? If she, or anybody else, wants to wear a purity ring, more power to them. What business is it of yours anyway?
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Wearing a Purity Ring is a CHOICE you make. Later, you replace it for your WEDDING RING!! It’s just a promise between you and GOD! I don’t know why you have to make a huge deal out of it. Stop it with the non-sense! And Christianity is not brainwashing us! YOU ALL ATHEISTS ARE MAKING A FOOL OUT OF YOURSELVES!! If you want to follow a religion it’s your choice and if you don’t follow any, then you don’t have to convince people not to!! People do whatever they want nowadays we don’t need someone to tell us what to do…only GOD!
I don’t want to offend anyone…its just, open up your eyes people!! And yeah Christianity started in Europe
GOD BLESS
-Proud Christian-
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anonymous2 you say that christianity is not brainwashing ppl and us athiests dont have to go round convincing ppl there is no god? Umm what about all the evangelicals and well just many christians that shove christianity down our throats and only give out aid or help if you are christian (like the salvation army). I think we athiests are very reserved and wont try to convert ppl but if asked we generally give you reasons for our beliefs.
Also christianity started in europe? Really i thought Jesus was born in Nazareth which corect me if im wriong is in the middle east.
and you boast of being a proud christian , um isnt pride a sin for jesus said the meek shall inherit the earth.
And as an ending note i take offense that you think all us athiets are making fools out of ourselves. Didnt jesus say to turn the other cheek which i would take that he meant for you not to take offense at what we say and forgive us and not call us names. But lol its quite hard for so-called christians to actually know what jesus preached about and take onboard his lessons. But you can all have fun in your big club of ignorant masses cant you?
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To the anonymous “proud christian”:
1) If you are proud, why be anonymous?
2) “If you want to follow a religion it’s your choice and if you don’t follow any, then you don’t have to convince people not to!”
I agree with you on the freedom of religion thing, but saying atheists shouldn’t convince people not to be religious is daft for several reasons. Firstly, you chose to come to this web page and read it. Secondly this page doesn’t try to convince you not to be religious. Thirdly perhaps Christians could lead by example and stop knocking on my door trying to get me to sign up to their religion.
3) “Christianity started in Europe”
Europe? Sorry, I’m not a Christian so I may have got mixed up here, but as I remember the story Jesus was born in Bethlehem, Judea. Then there are stories of him living in Egypt and Nazareth, Galilee. I seem to remember something about Jerusalem too. Now I know they let Israel enter the Eurovision song contest so it could be quite confusing, but none of those places are in Europe.
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Well thats not very nice.
for some people who are christians dont find that “crap”
because in the bible it says to wait untill your married to have Sex. And your thinking its okay for kids to have sex, thas whats wrong with the world, peopel having sex when there 13. and getting pregnet. OOOHHHKAAAYYY. And is you dont believe in anything, then you do, nothing. God put us all on this earth to believe in somthing.
EVELOUTION is NOOOTTT real.
okay?
“IN THE BEGIANING GOD CREATED THE HEAVENS AND THE EARTH”- Genisis 1:1
its true too.
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and also its a nother way of Witnising.
people could be like “My purity Ring”
well whats that”it means i wont have sex untill im married”
Nothing wrong with that.
becausei have one.
and no one like you are rude about it
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Thats ok. All of us Christians will live for eternity by the side of Jesus Christ.
I am 16 years old, and i wear a purity ring. And i believe in it with all of my heart. No, you dont need to be rude about it. If you dont believe in it thats fine, but dont create a stupid website talking trash about us who do have religion in our hearts.
Maybe your the one who needs a religion and something to look to.
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I’m all for remaining pure and chaste until marriage. It helps you avoid HIV/AIDS, other sexually transmitted diseases, an unplanned pregnancy (which often ends in abortion), and a broken heart if a relationship suddenly comes to an end for no reason. We live in a society where sex is everywhere, and everyone wants free access to it without consequence. Children are losing their innocence because of overexposure to sexually explicit images and pressure to have sex, and they are growing up fast as a result. Pornography, especially on the Internet, is rampant and out of control, and it will likely only get worse. However, while I truly believe in the benefits of waiting until marriage before having sex, I do not support the use of Purity Rings, the reciting of Purity Pledges, or the funding of Abstinence-Only sex education programs, mostly because neither of these programs have been proven to work. I think all they do is make teenagers and young adults feel guilty about their developing bodies, sexual urges and needs, and their budding sexuality, and they don’t offer any reasonable alternatives to sex and masturbation to help them control their impulses and desires. As a result, some of these kids wind up having sex anyway, and then feel guilty about it immediately afterward, because no one bothered to teach them how to control themselves. And interestingly enough, these kids were probably told that they will be condemned to Hell if they didn’t “learn to control them hormones.” Well, if they were supposed to control it, then why didn’t anyone show them how in the first place, which would have saved these poor kids a lot of agony later on? Kids can’t be expected to watch over themselves on their own. They need both discipline and guidance to do it. It’s like telling your kid not to run out in front of an oncoming car without warning them of the dire consequences. It just doesn’t work! Anyway, I’ve been to one of those H2O Sexual Purity events before, which was being held at a church, where the speaker talked to us about sex, society attitudes, marriage, purity, etc, then there was a special performance by a Christian Hip Hop group followed by a break and some kids making their Purity Pledges. It was basically an abstinence-only sex education seminar, where the speaker basically said this:”Did you know that anything you do sexually outside of marriage is immoral?” He was talking to a crowd of kids, some of whom looked no more than nine or ten years old! Most were teenagers, and the rest were the parents of these kids (except for me). I agreed with what he had said to a certain extent, but that’s a lot of pressure on a kid, don’t you think? Especially since these kids were being expected to guard themselves without any parental discipline or guidance. And they have to control their raging hormones while avoiding both sex and masturbation, too, all without being offered any alternatives to help get their minds off of their bodies. Hmmm! Is this really realistic? Did God really design us humans to be the sexual beings that we are, then turn around and unrealistically expect us to suppress our developing sexuality until marriage, and have our libido appear out of nowhere like magic once we are married so that we can enjoy all of the pleasurable benefits of sexual love? I think not! And you know why? Because even God Himself knows how unrealistic and inhumane it is! He knows our bodies just don’t work that way because He designed us Himself. And besides, I found it quite interesting that masturbation was never discussed at that seminar, considering the speaker had covered pretty much everything else under the sun, and it was very arousing to say the least. I was struggling with homosexual desire at the time and was totally obsessed with another woman from my church, so although I knew my sexual fantasies were wrong, I couldn’t help but enjoy a few about my object of lust during the entire seminar (which proves that, even if you overcome the homosexual lifestyle or the desire to experiment sexually with other people of your own gender through the blood of Jesus, as was my case, you are who you are, and you will continue to desire other people no matter how hard you try to fight it off). I guess I’m proof that, even if you don’t want to think it, be it, or do it, you simply cannot become something you’re not, so I might as well stop feeling disturbed and start realizing that this thing may never go away, right? Anyway, even though masturbation was never mentioned at the seminar, since anything we do sexually outside of marriage is immoral, then I guess the speaker was also referring to masturbation, because, after all, these kids aren’t allowed even to touch themselves and get to know their own bodies and how they respond sexually without a partner so that they can pass this information on to their future spouses and show them how they like to be pleasured during sex, remember? Instead, they are taught to believe that their sexual organs belong only to their husbands and wives, so they have no way of communicating their needs and no way of learning how to enjoy being married without the guilt and shame that usually comes with shame-based conditioning about sex and the body. In other words, the message is simply this: You are not allowed to have sex until you are married or masturbate, but you are expected to enjoy your God-given sexuality while trying to suppress your raging hormones at the same time. Can anyone do this? If so, I’d like to know how this can possibly happen. Isn’t this too much pressure on a kid, any kid, especially if you are a boy who is also adding testosterone to the mix while being told at the same time that it’s wrong to masturbate, think about sex, and fantasize about women? This is why I am against the use of Purity Rings, the reciting of Purity Pledges, and Abstinence-Only sex education programs. Kids will be kids, and they cannot always be expected to follow through with their promises all the time.
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omg dude you really need a serious wake-up call
i am a 16 year old girl who is christian.
I wear a purity ring as a symbol of my faith in God and respect for my body. A purity ring is like making a public announcment that we are willing to wait until we are married before we have sex. If you dont wait all you are going to do is get hurt. You can either end up pregnat or with STDs or just simply getting your heart broken. your virginity is a precious gift that can only be givin to ONE person… so dont you want that gift to be shared with someone you know that loves you and is not just dating you or whatever just for sex?
so i understand that you dont believe in what we are all about(God and remaining pure until marriage) but you do NOT need to make a website about it. Thats just rude. I will pray for you and for all of the other people on here that believe the same way you do. I will pray that you find God and that you get saved because it is the greatest thing in the world!
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How DARE you talk down on someones religion! Thats just ridiculous! A purity ring is something special: it is a symbol of someones faith and commitment to God and staying pure until marriage. I am a VERY religious teenage girl who happens to have a purity ring. Its not “brainwashing”, its a personal choice. Some people take it, some dont. Like I said, its a CHOICE. Seriously… making a website dedicated to bashing religions is very very immature. Honestly. Im hoping you get over this. Im praying for you.
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anon Reply:
January 22nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
How DARE you believe in god! That’s just ridiculous! God is a symbol of fear who has caused most of the shit that’s wrong with this world. I am a VERY rational teenage boy who happens to be an laugh at christ followers like you. Its brainwashing, its a personal choice, but you made an uneducated one. Some people take it, some don’t. Like I said, its a CHOICE. Seriously… making a website dedicated to bashing religions is one step closer to a society of thinkers. Honestly, I’m hoping you get over this whole god idea. I’m not praying for you, as i do not waste my time on such foolish activities.
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How DARE you post a comment bashing this website? That’s just ridiculous! A website is something special, it is a symbol of someone’s commitment to sharing knowledge with the rest of the human race. I am a person who happens to have a website. It’s not immature, it’s a personal choice. Some people take it, some don’t. Like I said, it’s a CHOICE. Seriously posting a comment bashing this website is brainwashing. Honestly, I hope you get over this but I won’t bother praying for you.
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This is getting so out of hand!
If someone wanted to wear a “tolerance” ring I garenttee they would be able to wear it. Maybe if our socity wasn’t so “tolerant” and more of us weren’t teaching kids that nothing is wrong to do maybe we wouldn’t be such an angry,unhappy and dumb society.
Look at the clothes for little girls thong underwear, underchothes for tops. They don’t even know what they are advertising. You wonder why there is so much rape? You can only be a kid for 18-20 years. Let kids be kids and quit teaching them adult things so early. Schools need to drop the extra crap and actually teach them reading,writing and math. I’m not talking that music,art and recess should be taken out but sex ed,”tolerance”,Spanish and etc… So what if your family is dad and mom,mom and mom or dad and dad,grandparents but a whole lesson on each type is not needed. Tolerance is suppose to be for all people. But we are being taught that tolerance is not for us. You are not tolerant to us. Some of us actually like to be good,honest and pure. Big whoop. We don’t hate you. Why do you hate us? You laugh at us but yet we are suppose to embrace you.
There are symbols in everything anyone believes in. No one is telling you not to wear it. Why should we not be allowed to wear and say things we believe in? You are trying to shut us up but you can say or do anything you believe in.
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I’m not being mean when I say this but I hate to tell you. You’re wrong. Christianity isn’t brainwashing people. God gave us the choice to be on his side or the devil’s. It all had started in the garden of Eden. And I don’t see why evolutionists and atheists go around criticizing us when they don’t even know our beleifs. As Irgan Canner said i’m not religious and i’m not spiritual but i’m saved. We aren’t shoving anything down anybody’s throats. But everything that everyone is saying is disproved in the Bible. And if evolution is true that we we are hybrids of monkeys then why hasn’t there been a hybrid of a fish and a bird or a bear and a turtle. There isn’t missing links but there is missing chains. And when people ask me of my religion (or denomination which is really what they are asking me)I say Christian which isn’t a religion it’s a life style choice. And yes Jesus was an evangelical but Christianity the term started with Paul in the church of Antiogue.
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anon Reply:
January 22nd, 2009 at 7:32 pm
atheism is not a religion, it’s a denial of deities. Also, most “christians” have not even read the bible, the Atheist are the ones who have read it, thought rationally, and said “this is bullshit, the earth is not 5,000 years old, that’s been proven”. But the christians look and say “All the works of modern science could not possibly equal the work of cattle-sacrificing primitives who believe every animal on earth lived within walking distance of noah’s house.”
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And also by trying to convert people to atheism when being asked and you tell someone then that is a religion.
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Christians don’t knock on your door Jehovah Witness do which is a religion. Christianity is not it’s a lifestyle choice
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A purity ring will not prevent you from having sex all it is is a symbol it is the decision that comes with it. Exactly like Baptism that is just a symbol of following Christ. A purity ring isn’t the acctual decision but a symbol of the decision you don’t have to have a purity ring to be pure.
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What is the deal with you hating christians and other religions so much? It’s not a bunch of crap, we all believe in a god, at least were believing in something! Purity rings aren’t bad, it’s a vow we take so that sick twisted people [probably like yourself] don’t snatch away everything we have and ruin our lives. Why is christianity such a bad thing to you?! We devote our lives to giving back to others because that’s why were are HERE, that’s god reason for letting us live. There should be MORE people with purity rings! Our world is full of slutty, nasty, filthy, gross, disgusting girls. There are 9 year old’s walking around half-naked! Their practically selling their bodies! Its gross. So before you talk smack think about the facts.
GOD IS EVERYTHING.
HOPE.TRUST.BELIEF.LIFE
EVERY EMOTION IS WRITTEN BY GOD.
This is our story not yours.
So get a LIFE.
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anon Reply:
January 22nd, 2009 at 7:36 pm
Why is it so good to believe in something without evidence?
Also christianity(and religion in general) is a bad thing because leaders of this world make decisions based on their faith, which winds up with deaths, simply because someone else has a different religion.
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There’s no reason to criticize. The purity ring WILL NOT make the hormones go away. But if a woman, or man, gets into a situation that they shouldn’t be in then they can look down and see the promise they’ve made to God.
Everyone has their own beliefs and opinions and you are entitled but sometimes when people do stuff like this, like criticizing someone’s beliefs, they are just saying that they are better than other people. I don’t criticize people that don’t believe. I try to understand why they don’t believe in God. It’s not that I think that I’m so much better and if a Christian actually tells you that then they are NOT a GODLY example of a Christian.
Well, while y’all rant and rave over something you can never change we, Christians, are gonna live our life up and witness our beliefs to others.
Honestly people, why do this all day long. You could be outside or doing something more useful. You aren’t gonna be able to change what others do so why complain about it???
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One more thing. Y’all hate when we complain about you not believing in God and you know how annoying that is. Well, what do you think you are doing here??? It’s VERY ANNOYING!!! You can’t change it and never will be able to so why not go and live your life to the fullest?
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U R just sick if u really love ur girlfriend u would respect her wishs u r soooooooooooooooooooooooo WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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An example of inconsistent thinking.
The writer argues that teens are sexually active (and ought to be) because we evolved that way. He goes on to point out that rabbits and chickens don’t wait to get married to have sex.
If the writer is going to give evolution of sexual activities the credit for why people are the way they are, then he also needs to realize that evolution would be responsible for such things as purity rings.
Simply put, if premarital sex came by evolution, then so did purity rings; therefore, quit whining.
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Hey guys, isn’t it funny that an atheist can explain how life here on earth evolved, but they can’t explain how life actually got here? And they call themselves “rational thinkers”! I, on the other hand, will continue my faith as a Christian. However, I will not allow any of my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ impose any of their unrealistic ideals on me, call it biblical, then turn around and condemn me just because I disagree with some of their views. That’s my story, and I’m sticking to it.
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haha…this si such i funny article i sat here and laughed and laughed. Some people are so stupid it’s outrageously stupid. Im sorry you see the world this way and some day i hope you see the light!
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There was a whole heck of a lot more beliefs before Christianity showed up. People just seem to have to believe in stories that can in no way be proven or disproven, it helps them deal with death. If a strong belief helps somebody then that’s fine they can believe in it, but for somebody to say how DARE you criticise a religious belief it is rather hypocritical. Are they not doing the same to non religous people’s belief system? I myself am a man of science, of logic and fact. I have a much better time believing in evolution as I have seen it happen in experiments myself than I do in an omnipitent being who is all knowing. I like to be in control of my own life, not worry about being judged all the time. Life is short, as long as you are a good person and try to have fun, make a living, that’s all that matters.
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I will agree that religion is an idea formed through the evolution of the Human brain, as human’s like to be able to explain everything. When they can’t the brain comes up with a less plausible idea to believe in. The human mind is the most powerful machine in existence, we all have the potential to be Gods. Abilities such as telekenisis, telepathy and others are locked within our minds, one of the next stages of Human evolution might unlock those, if we don’t destroy the planet first.
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I can’t believe people are trying to say christianity isn’t a religion, yes it is. When we are born we know nothing, if somebody says there’s an invisble man in the sky little kids aren’t the wiser. Everybody who claims to feel the love of jesus is full of shit, your part of a manipulated cult that dates back 2000 years. You actually think the works is 6000 years old despite piles and piles of evidenced that proves otherwise. If a person wants to where a bullshit ring let them who gives a fuck, all you proud christians reading this are proabably in denial about it, so here’s a test go ask your pastor if Jesus ever got a blowjob. As far as sex goes it should be between two people who are both ready.
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It is their opinion to wear a purity ring I’m Christian and I don’t have one! Relating it to cats and dogs doesn’t help because THEIR ANIMALS!!! Also you can’t tell people it doesn’t work stop doing that because that is their freedom of religion rights and if you don’t know what that is it’s in the first amendment saying you can’t tell people how to practice their religions!
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okay i am a jesus freak and i am sick of ppl saying its bull crap GOD IS REAL EVOLUTION IS BULL BULLCRAP!!!!!!!! people can have opinions i have many and i am in te process of the purity study and i am 14 and you say teens should do teenager stuff well what if teenager stuff isnt having sex okay ppl say sex is kool we guess what i say to that you think its kool well i am doing something WAYYYYYY more kool and staying pure untill marriage the man i get married to deserves to have the first sex with me and i deserve his ( i dont kno how to put that lol ) and thats my opinion
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ashley Reply:
December 22nd, 2008 at 10:40 pm
REPLY TO ciera:
dude, your 14 and your taking a vow of purity? your not even mature enough to make that decition, thats my opinion.
no sex before marraige ruins relationships. sex is known to be the best way to show someone you care and love them. and some people cant handle a relationship without that effection. there is nothing wrong with having sex, its natural. and i back up the statement in the article above, “Do you see rabbits or chickens or cats or dogs waiting to have sex till they get married?” there gods creations to APPARENTLY so why dont they? i use to be christian, but now ive realised its total bull shit.
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anon Reply:
January 22nd, 2009 at 7:40 pm
How can you sit there and say an unproven belief is bull crap, while science, which has disproven your belief time and time again, is bull crap
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WOOOOOOOOOOO!
i agree so much haha.
religion was made up,
and now everyone believes all
the lies, and following “the way of god”
and wasting there life.
xox.
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To wear a purity ring is to discriminate all who arnt virgins, and it is as to say: I am worth more than you, I am pure.
It is unbelivably ignorant and MEAN.
And that missionaries teach abstinence only
in countries where HIV/Aids is on the raise, that just pisses me of!
IT MAKES ME REALLY UPSET!
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Megan Reply:
August 21st, 2009 at 5:23 pm
the fact that people wear purity rings around you has absolutelty nothing to do with making you feel bad or upset. They are not wearing them to upset you or for attention. they are wearing them to show the commitment they made in their heart on the outside. They are wearing it for their future spouse. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. This is a pretty selfish and incorrect statement. Christians do not wear purity rings to be “mean”.
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Tasha Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 2:20 am
just because people wear purity rings, doesn’t mean they think they’re better. they just are saying, it’s my choce, not yours.
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You need the Lord. I’m praying for you. Honestly, what’s so bad about religion? I, personally, am Christian, but I’m going to speak for all religions. Think about this, you “rational thinker”. Only approximately 2.3% of the ENTIRE WORLD’S population is atheist. So, for all you “rational thinkers” out there, doesn’t that say something? That makes you irrational. Why would people rather believe what 2.3% of the population believes? Do you really think that makes you smarter? Well, it doesn’t. The big bang theory is complete nonsense. Where did the darkness even come from? and the atom? No one knows. So before you start dissing religion for not having all of the answers, you should check yourself and see if YOU have all the answers. And there IS scientific proof of Christianity.
And why do you find it necessary to make a website about this? Do you think you’re going to change the beliefs of about 98% of the world’s population? Well think again “rational thinker”. It’s not happening. And I don’t understand what gives you atheists the drive to do good in the world. Since you believe that you’re supposedly going to die and turn into dust anyways. Honestly, if I didn’t have anything to live for, I’d just kill myself. But I believe that God wants me to put others before myself, and I’ll be rewarded in heaven. I think you’re all just scared to admit that there is a superior being to yourself. You’re afraid to think that there’s someone who can end the would as quickly as He created it. You’re afraid to admit that you need a change in your life. And finally, you’re afraid to life the Christian lifestyle. I’m not trying to shove religion down your throat, but stop shoving your atheism down mine. You can have your beliefs, but STOP criticizing others’. Oh, and here’s your scientific proof:
http://www.clarifyingchristianity.com/b_proof.shtml
Enjoy. And I am praying that all you atheists will come to your senses. If you have any questions, go to your local church. I’m sure the pastor will be more than happy to answer all of you questions.
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Michael Reply:
August 18th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
The hypocrisy, inanity, and controdictory statements your post is just…simply astonishing.
>”You can have your beliefs, but STOP criticizing others’”
Seriously? That’s what you spent most of post doing.
>”Why would people rather believe what…see if YOU have all the answers.”
I don’t have the answers, i don’t know. And neither do you. You claim to know what happens after you die, but you don’t, no one does. You do not posses extra sensory perceptions that others do not, that enable you to know the truth. What you have is a belief, that is all.
>And there IS scientific proof of Christianity.
No. Just damn it no. I read your “proof”, and just no. It claims dinosaurs were mentioned it the bible. But how could they? All non-avian dinosaurs went extinct 65 million years ago. They were not around 2500 years ago when the Old Testament was written. The rest of it is simply spotty research, filled in with Old Testament quotes.
>And I don’t understand what gives you atheists the drive to do good in the world…Honestly, if I didn’t have anything to live for, I’d just kill myself.
Would you? Would you really? Because i certainly wouldn’t, without a higher power i am perfectly happy. I believe in this world, i believe in this life. I believe in people, and doing some good in this world without any higher reason. So if the only reason you believe in God is to save your ass just in case you’re right, that’s a horrible reason the put faith into something. Fear does not equal redemption.
Please, just take time to consider and think about the world before you spout blind faith all over the place. Don’t assume all atheist are like the hate spewing, Christian hating teenagers who are rebelling against everyone. They are a cancer who has fueled a religious war over the internet.
But i don’t know, you don’t know, belief is the only thing we have in this world pertaining to life after death. But that is no reason not to be a decent person in this life, and try to minimize the self destructive, corrupt state that all humans face in life.
And thanks for your time if you read all this, i know it was quite a lot.
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Jo Reply:
October 22nd, 2009 at 2:24 am
I was reading through the comments, and you said everything that I was thinking!
I’m sixteen years old and a proud atheist!
Thank you for your response to the above comment.
It made me smile
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megan Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
i couldn’t agree with you more. It’s nice to see someone who shares my beliefs write something on this page. Keep living for God
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megan Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 3:41 pm
that last comment was intended for stephanie sorry if it went somewhere else
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wow it amazes me how you think everyone is wrong but you. It must be pretty lonely to think your better than the rest of the world. There is nothing wrong with waiting for marrige. It’s smart not only from a religious standpoint but also from a medical one. If you save yourself for marrige you will probably not get an STD, if you got pregnant you would be married, maybe not ready for a child, but the childd would have a better life. Maybe you should think about how ignorant you sound before you put this stuff on the internet, for the whole world to read. You obviously have absolutely no idea what you are talking about since you thought Muslim and Islam were different. I am a proud Christian and I am proud to say I am waiting for marriage. If you want people to respect your opinions at lest try to make it sound like you did some reserch before you say whatever you want.
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Mike Reply:
August 23rd, 2009 at 7:44 pm
Seriously, how old are you? I just got this vibe from your terrible sentence structure, grammar, and outright blatant misuse of logic, that you must be under 15.
But why, why would you choose to wait for marriage, without knowing what the future will hold for you. You take the pretentious standpoint of the ignorance and close minded views that comes with one of these purity rings. Sure it’s fine to save yourself until marriage, but if you find someone you care about enough to have sex with, why would you deny yourself that experience? Love does not have to equal marriage. But love should equal sharing wonderful things such as sex with your partner. It’s natural, it lets you express how you feel, and it’s an amazing experience.
Yet you choose to live in a shroud of ignorance, and why, i’ll never understand.
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megan Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
actuallly I’m 16 and as long as I am getting my point across i really don’t care how bad my sentence structure is. And what’s your logic if mine is so flawed? I choose to wait because i want it to mean something. If you have sex with everyone you think you “love” then there is nothing left to give to the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with. Also it is safer if you only have sex with one person you are less likely to get an STD or give one to them. I’m not denying myself anything i am simply waiting for marriage to make my experience better. and i am not close minded. I do not hate people that have premarital sex, i just do not agree with them. I am not ignorant. I am making a very wise decision, I am sorry that you do not understand that.
and by the way do not judge me on my age. I have been through more crap in my life than most people ever go through.
Oh and don’t think that I hate you or am angry with you because I am not. I’m going to pray for you now. Sorry if I sounded pissed I’m just really passionate about this.
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Mike Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 4:18 pm
I’m sorry about that last post, i was just pretty bored and angry.
>and i am not close minded. I do not hate people that have premarital sex, i just do not agree with them
That was all i needed to hear from you. We should simply respect each other, and work together to make this the best life it can be. Most people who i have come across who wear purity rings are elitist individuals who do not respect those who don’t. I’m sorry if i seemed to lump you in with that group.
megan Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
it’s cool. Thanks for apologizing, thats really nice of you. I dislike When Christians do that as much as you do. God created everyone equally we are no better than everyone else. I’m sorry that people treat you that way it isn’t right. It is not what the Bible teaches us either. Christians are not supposed to hate anyone, ever. Unfortunatly a lot of us do not think this way. they hate homosexuals, people who have abortions and people who engage in premarital sex or smoke or drink etc. A lot of my closest friends have done these things and i love them, I just do not agree with their choices, i tell them what i believe but i do not force it on them. Who am I to judge anyone? Thats not what God wants us to do.
Mike Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
You are honestly one of the few people in this world who seems to have interpreted the bible correctly. You should really be proud of that.
megan Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 5:53 pm
thank you so much that is the best compliment anyone could ever give me. if you want to keep in touch to share viewpoints that would be really cool. I like to hear other people’s opions and know how to tell them mine without offending them. feel free to add my myspce or facebook.
http://www.myspace.com/mrod123456789101112131415
http://www.facebook.com/megan.e.rodriguez
if you don’t have either of those my email is: ninjaturtle525@aim.com
(if you got this message a bunch my computor is being messed up. sorry)
megan Reply:
August 25th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
thank you so much that is the best compliment anyone could ever give me. If you would like to keep in touch to share viewpoints and stuff that would be cool. I like to hear what other people have to say and learn how to talk to everyone respectfully but still say what i think.
anyway if you want to add my myspce or facebook or im feel free.
myspace.com/mrod123456789101112131415
facebook.com/megan.e.rodriguez
or ninjaturtle525@aim.com
I’m glad we talked today
i really don’t think waiting till you are married is a bad thing. it shows you respect your partner and are willing to do the same. But bashing on religions is a whole different territory. Yes people believe you don’t need a religion, but for others, it’s all they have. The world is full of religion, and so many different kinds. Maybe it was created for brain washing, but we’ll never know. It’s a persons choice to be religious or to be non-religious. and for some people, it’s changed them into better people. So whats the fuss on others opinions?
The world if full of opinions, and everyone is entitled to their own. This makes us all interesting and the SAME in a way. Judge what you will, but don’t hurt people in doing so. I am a christian, and i love a god, but he’s my god, and no one elses. Yes it sounds weird and i’m entitled to that.
The person who wrote this blog is just saying what he believes in. I would do the same. He’s right to say what he wants, so leave him alone if you want to be left alone. i agree with the school thing, if it’s not allowed, wear it on your own time, your a kid, don’t worry about what you might do in the future.
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It looks like your trying to employ some brainwashing techniques yourself: “yes, it’s true; EVOLUTION really DID happen”. And why is it that you compare humans to animals?: “Do you see rabbits or chickens or cats or dogs waiting to have sex till they get married?”. Humans are much more intelligent (according to the observation of communication skills, abstract thought, civilization, pursuit of knowledge, aesthetics, et cetera) and hopefully more sophisticated with a sense of morality.
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I think purity rings are a load of crap. I respect a person’s right to wait until they are married to have sex, but why should they document it with a ring? Is it really so wrong to have sex before you’re married if it’s with the right person?
All purity rings do, is make teenagers feel guilty if they decide they don’t want to wait anymore. It sets them up for failure.
My point is, if a person wants to wait until they’re married, then that’s their decision, just don’t try and glorify it with a ring!
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